There is a way out of abusive relationships, and there are many services that can assist you or a friend in making a safe break from an unhealthy relationship:
- If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
- To communicate with a trained Peer Advocate 24/7, call the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 1-866-311-9474 (1-866-331-8453 TTY).
- Contact a local domestic violence agency that can provide you with expert advice, counseling services and the support you need to leave an unhealthy relationship.
Aurora, Illinois 1-630-897-0800 |
Chicago, Illinois 1-312-738-5358 |
Cleveland, Ohio 1-216-391-HELP (4357) |
Des Moines, Iowa 1-866-256-7668 |
Detroit, Michigan 1-313-861-5300 |
Kansas City– Metro 1-913-262-2868 |
Milwaukee, Wisconsin 1-414-389-6510 |
Things to do when ending an abusive relationship:
- Develop a safety plan with a domestic violence agency if you fear you will be hurt.
- Share your safety plan with a trusted peer or your parents.
- Break up over the phone or in public.
- Change your route going to school.
- Always have access to a phone or money to make a call in case of an emergency.
- Take threats seriously and notify an adult.
How to help a friend who is in an abusive relationship:
- Listen.
- Don’t judge.
- Keep your friend’s confidence unless you are concerned about her safety.
- Encourage your friend to talk to a trusted adult.
- Help your friend by suggesting a counselor or an advisor you trust.
- Call the police if you witness an assault.
- Let your friend know that violence is never acceptable.
